Ben Affleck is rejected by both Jens in his life

The Alias beauty had been by Ben’s side for months when divorce rumors swirled and then intensified after the Batman star and the Let’s get loud singer put their Beverly Hills mansion on the market.

Meanwhile, he moved into a $100,000-a-month bachelor pad near his ex-wife’s house.

Garner, 52, would effectively serve as his unofficial marriage counselor, and sources reveal that her efforts to help Ben’s crumbling union have even won admiration from J. Lo, 55.

But now our sources say Garner has decided to keep her distance, in part to preserve her own relationship with the 46-year-old beauty. Johannes Molenaar healthy.