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Clare Crawley, Matt James, Rachael KirkConnell.
Getty images (3)Clare Crawley Apparently thinks Matt James almost appear on her Bachelor season.
“Catching up Socal News and SMH for some of these things,” wrote Crawley, 43, via her Instagram stories on Wednesday January 29. “Don’t forget that I once asked producers specifically not to allow a specific man in my season because my season does not allow me because I was not looking for a serious relationship.”
She added: ‘I didn’t want him to waste someone’s time. So instead they made him the next bachelor. ‘
After failed stints Juan Pablo Galavis‘Season 18 of The bachelor, single in paradise And Bachelor Winter Games, Crawley was tapped as the franchise policy in 2020. The journey – which was initially delayed in the midst of the coronavirus – Pandemie – was planned to appear James, now 33, as one of her lovers. By the time the production started, James was no longer a cast member. He became the first black bachelor. (At the time, James was known as a franchise favorite Tyler Cameron‘s roommate and university friend.)
At James’s season later in 2020 he fell in love with finalist Rachael KirkConnell. They date in and out for four years before they called it for the good earlier this month. According to KirkConnell, 28, she was blinded by James’ decision to end their relationship.
“He said that at the end of the day there were just qualities about me that he is worried about having a woman,” Kirkconnell on the podcast episode “Call Her Daddy” that dropped on Tuesday 28 January. “At the end of the day there are things that we are not compatible with and say the whole responsibility and sorry and everything that was really the most important thing.”
She added: “It was just one of those things that he, I think, just realized that by that time I would like to introduce you. Like, on this point in our relationship, I would like those things and there I still have to be ready. You can’t really see myself.

James did not introduce KirkConnell during his season The bachelorInstead, choose to date. They started briefly after previous racial insensitive photos of KirkConnell that appeared online.
“He felt so much pressure to just make the right decision and to assist what was good for him at the time,” she remembered on Tuesday. “And, you know, strangers and people who were really close to him in his life said,” I don’t think you should be with her. “And so I think he thought that was the right decision at the time, just to take a step back and not be together.”
According to KirkConnell, she was “absolutely shocked” when James broke up with her for the first time.
“We were very happy together, even with all the chaos around us when it was only me and him behind closed doors, it was great,” she said. “It was so nice. We were so happy when we decided not to let the outdoor noise come to us. ‘
Years after Kirkconnell and James had reconciled, they constantly shot back on pressure to be engaged. During her appearance “Call Her Daddy”, the graphic designer also claimed that James recently asked early for the engagement ring.
James has not publicly tackled the claims of KirkConnell or Crawley outside his first-driven break-up statement.
“Father God, give Rachael and I strengthen our broken hearts,” James wrote at the time via Instagram. ‘Give us a peace [sic] About this decision to put an end to our relationship that transcends worldly understanding. Showering our friends and family with kindness and love to comfort us. And remind us that our joy comes from you, Lord 💔. “
As for Crawley, her Bachelor Season ended within 12 days when she was engaged Dale Moss. After they separated, she eventually continued with now-man Ryan Dawkins.