Tiktoker goes viral with 5 things not to say during sex

If you have sex with someone, do you have that of that person back? Not in a dirty way but a supportive and encouraging way? Well, on Tiktok people have posted the top five things that people can say in bed to talk their partners through sex. But when @sirdoglord called this trend In a tap -video And said, “I thought I would contribute mine,” what she mentioned put everything on his back. Her post, which has already collected more than 1.6 million views and more than 1680 comments, was probably tongue-in-cheek and offered the following five things that you might not want to say in bed:

1. “Why do you breathe so hard?”

This can be equivalent to say: “Are you out of shape” or “Can’t you keep track of me?” If there is no genuine care for the well -being of the other, this is not very nice to say. On the other hand, this can be a legitimate question, because breathing difficulties can be a sign of legitimate breathing problems such as an asthma attack or accidentally (or deliberately) inhale a condom. It can be proof of cardiovascular issues such as a heart attack. As an alternative, the person simply cannot be prepared at the level of power that you would expect.

That is why communication and coordination are important during sex. If you are not so familiar with each other, go slowly and be open about where you want to go to find good mutual land. Do not jump directly into a heavy sexual position such as the “suspended scissors” until you are both ready. After all, were you always not told never to run with scissors?

2. “Are you almost ready?”

Patience is a virtue in many arenas, including sex. But if you have a train to catch, cookies to save from the oven or another reason to hurry, ask “are you almost ready” or pointing to your watch, can come across as insensitive. To prevent such situations, you must ensure that you communicate everywhere, so that you can have a better idea of ​​where each of you happens to be in the entire process. And only remember because you do not climb and be done together does not mean that you do not both do not have fun.

3. Look of disgust

This was not a specific sense, but instead a look (see above), and it was not a appearance of love. Such looks can be fast instinctive reactions that are not easy to rule. Trying to suppress it can look even worse, given the constipated look. How you deal with this can depend on the nature of your connection. If this is a one night stand, you might be just a bad match. On the other hand, you have two in a long -term relationship such as friends or more, it is better to openly communicate about what specifically caused that reaction. Otherwise the other person may have noticed your look and you keep asking what has encouraged.

4. “Is this amount of sweat normal, have you spoken with a doctor?”

Sweating is a normal part of sex and any powerful physical activity, hence the hit number “Gonna Make You Sweat (Everybody Dance Now)” from 1990 by C+C Music Factory. Sweat, also Known As Perspiration, is The Body’s Natural Way of Cooling Off, As the Sweat GRANDS LOCATED IN THE DIMMIS LAYER OF THE SINTREAT WATER Contining Salts, Vitamins, Minerals, Proteins, and Amino Acids That Can Help Disspipate Heat When Evaporate . Someone who does not float at all during what should be very powerful sex can have anhidrosis, where the sweat glands do not function properly, or just not try so hard, especially if the person happens to stretch a shirt. time.

But excessive sweating can be a sign of a medical problem such as heart problems, low blood sugar levels, hyperthyroidism or infections such as flu or tuberculosis. Certain medicines such as antidepressants and beta -blockers can also cause sweating. The perpetrator can also be stress and fear that never happens before and during sex, right?

Then there is hyperhidrosis, that is when a person generally sweats more than what is considered normal. This can largely occur in part of the body, such as the armpits or in different parts of the body. A doctor can diagnose hyperhidrosis through a history, physical and two tests: a target test for starch and a vapometer. Hyperhidrosis can be hereditary. It can also be the result of the aforementioned problems if they are chronic. Other possible causes are gout, alcoholism, spinal cord problems or menopause.

Because you probably don’t bring a vapometer to your sexual encounters, it can be difficult to say what should be considered normal versus excessive sweat. Therefore, if you are really worried about your partner, you can be open about your worries, as long as you come across as real and not judgmental.

5. “Is this your first time?”

The answer to this question must by definition be ‘yes’. If the other person happens to be new in the game and you, so to speak, have more experience around the basic paths, consider talking the other person by talking. Openly and honest collaboration can help you get hits.

This question becomes more a problem when the other person believes that he is an experienced veteran and you think of ‘Rookie’. Such a question can then be related to “you suck a little” and not in a good way. Moreover, only because your partner does not do what you need does not necessarily mean that the person has no experience. That person can be used to doing things in a different way or has not done it for a while.

Again, such a question in the middle of sex is a sign of a communication output. Everyone who is new to the entire game must be about it in advance during the warm-ups pre-game. Otherwise the inexperience will clearly see as soon as it is playing time. So it helps for both of you to encourage an open sharing of your backgrounds and perspectives.

If you do not enjoy the experience, tell the other person specifically what everything can improve. For example, you can say: “Not there, but instead encourage the right actions instead of being critical of the wrong actions such as” No, not like a Hoover -vacuum. “

These five things mentioned by @sirdoglord were certainly not the only sisters who can and will probably say people in bed. Commentators on the Tiktok -Post have added other things, such as “we can take a break if you want”, “do you always make that face” and “is that?” This is all a memory that communication is an important part of sex. Good sex includes mental, emotional and verbal coordination, together with physical coordination.